How to Start the Conversation About Assisted Living with Someone You Love

Bringing up the topic of assisted living to a parent or family member can trigger a lot of emotions. Your loved one may be hesitant at the thought of moving, and tension could surface, so it is important to know how to approach the topic in a positive and supportive way.

As an assisted living and memory care community in Smyrna, Georgia, Provident Village at Creekside knows how the initial conversation about assisted living can set the tone for the whole experience. This is a significant decision for your family, so we are sharing tips to help make the process as smooth and positive as possible.

Tip #1: Do Your Research

It is always a good idea to be prepared. Doing your research about assisted living care before you bring up the topic to your loved one can help ease the conversation. 

Unfortunately, there are still stigmas about what life looks like in an assisted living community, and your loved one may believe these negative stereotypes. Knowing the reality about this lifestyle option can reassure your parent or family member that assisted living communities offer compassionate care and endless opportunities to help individuals live life to the fullest.

By researching your options, you will have a better understanding of the options available to you and your family and be able to answer any questions they may have.

Tip #2: Keep Calm and Stay Positive

Whether your family member is hesitant to leave their current home or they do not believe they could benefit from assistance and support, it is important to talk about the subject in a positive way. 

The goal of assisted living communities is to promote safety and enhance residents’ independence (not limit it!) through supportive services. Reassure your loved one that assisted living communities, like Provident Village at Creekside in Smyrna, Georgia, offer welcoming, home-like environments that provide personalized care and exceptional amenities. 

Be sure to emphasize the benefits of moving into an assisted living community and how this lifestyle change could improve their quality of life, painting a positive picture in your loved one’s mind.

Tip #3: Make It an Ongoing Conversation

The conversation and decision-making process of moving into an assisted living community should be ongoing. You and your family need time discuss concerns and feelings, explore options, review finances, and determine the best course of action, which cannot be done in one sitting. 

We suggest starting the conversation as early as possible. If you wait to bring up the topic when care and support are absolutely needed, your family member might feel like you are trying to tell them what they have to do instead of listening to their preferences and concerns. This, in turn, could lead to more hesitation and resistance.

Making this conversation ongoing goes hand-in-hand with doing your research. When you start planning for the future ahead of time, you and your family have more options to review and explore.

Tip #4: Listen to Your Loved One’s Feelings

No one wants to feel like they don’t have a say about what goes on in their life. Even if transitioning your family member into an assisted living community is absolutely necessary, remember to listen to and consider how they feel about the move. 

Make your loved one feel like their feelings are validated. Listen to what they want in an assisted living community and work to accommodate them. We encourage you to read our Blog, “What to Look for in an Assisted Living Community,” to get a better idea of what makes a community right for you and your family member.

Explore Assisted Living in Smyrna, Georgia

Our assisted living community focuses on each resident’s strengths and challenges. Provident Village at Creekside’s comprehensive assessment allows us to develop an individualized plan of care that promotes and supports a resident’s highest level of independence. In addition, we ensure appropriate assistance is available so each resident can enjoy vibrant, engaging living and a wellness-focused lifestyle.

Some of our assisted living amenities include:

  • Assistance with the tasks of daily living
  • Restaurant-style dining
  • Clubs and educational programs
  • Weekly housekeeping and laundry services
  • Daily social activities
  • On-site spa and salon

Moving into an assisted living community is a significant decision, and our team is here to help you through every step of the process. Contact a member of our team or visit our website to learn more about our senior living community in Smyrna, Georgia.

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